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The difference

If you are married you will be able to connect better on this topic..staying with new parents after marriage is not an easy task for any newly wedded girl however the new family says that you are our daughter ,it is not true in the real sense.

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The way your own mother treats you when you are hungry ,tired from job, irritated os not the way your new mother will treat you..she will take grudge within her and taunt in other ways that you may not like.But remember she is not your mother,you have a relation with them because you are their son’s spouse and the sooner you will understand this reality ,you will be happier.Don’t compare her with your mother or don’t compare the new set of parents with your parents..they will love their children more than you whatever may happen and you have to understand this.

The sooner you learn to ignore things and lay emphasis on the things you like ,the sooner you will be a happy soul. Start thinking of ways where they do-not come in your life picture.

Great Indian Wedding

We are having a wedding in our society and the whole celebration reminds me of my wedding!So,in our country especially in North India wedding is not just a small family affair,it’s a huge thing..with celebrations extending up-to a week.

But,in all the noise and humdrum people having wedding in their family forget that there are other people too living in the vicinity..I have no issues in the DJ nights and mehendi nights (See image below) that we have (I too had it during my wedding),

but just for the sake of the society ,we should practice one thing -to not cause noise pollution among the celebrations..our celebrations should not cause disturbance to others..

Rest,I love Indian weddings,all the dance,songs,mehendi designs on hand and most importantly make up and dresses!!

So,if you haven’t been to a great Indian wedding try and attend at-least one function and try to be little sober if you are anyone organising a wedding;)

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You are super awesome

I really fail to understand that is it just me or every girl who gets married has the same feeling that your mum is the most awesome woman ever on earth! We may fight and argue or even get irritated before marriage on every little things that our moms say to us but only later do we realise that even in that criticism was her hidden love.

When she made that simple dal and rice and you made a face saying that I will eat something outside little did you realise that you will yearn for that simple home -cooked meal years later ..it might happen with any unmarried male or female who is staying away from home for work but it happens genuinely with a married girl!!Trust me;)

The family you move into has a new set of parents they are very loving no doubt ,but still that motherly love is missing..food cooked on demand and simple food that you once disregarded are now precious things when you visit home after long..

I read a poem once in junior school and it’s so true:

I can find many butterflies 🦋< strong>I can find many trees 🌲I can find many stars 🌟I can find many flowers 💐But,when I look around I can’t find anyone who resembles you mom..as mom you are the only one and no one can replace you❤️ With love, from all the daughters who might be away ..but are still their mothers little angels 👼 💕 Much love #latenightscenti. #IndiBlogger

What the hell is your problem?

Yesterday all the speculations that India had about the wedding of the best batsman in the world(Virat Kohli) and Bollywood’s top actress (Anushka Sharma) came to an end as they tweeted about their dream wedding.They make a wonderful couple no doubt but why they flew away from their own home country and solemnised their wedding with just a few guests?

It’s because of their one fault that they are celebrities ,as cricket is almost worshipped in our country Virat obviously becomes a celebrity and the next worshipped category has film stars so Anushka ..but What the hell is your problem?

This must be the question that every celebrity asks when they are asked personal questions or their activities are traced.Why do they have to defend their weight gain or loss ,why can’t they fail in any movie .Why on everything they do they are trolled.?I am not defending any category of people or class I am just trying to put this issue up.

Ordinary couple yet made to be extraordinary:D

As am so pissed off with all the videos and stories behind Anushka’s makeup,attire,their venue and other festivities .This is so normal guys everyone who gets married goes through this entire scenario.All the brides look pretty on their wedding day!

So,why so much drama?Why are we analysing their assets are they going to give some assets to someone who estimates it correctly??No!Right so then what is the problem???Why can’t people just mind their own business and carry on with life!?

This mentality of poking heads into other person’s life is the most disturbing thing anyone can do and it’s not only about stars these days even normal people like us are questioned a-lot by some very worried uncles and aunties or some neighbors who don’t have anything else to do in life apart from match making or asking for some other unrelated couple’s plan of having a baby!!!

The thing that I have understood after all this hype is that no one else changes only we need to change ourselves.So if they are too pokey just be more secretive and enjoy their hard work in finding out secrets of your life😀😀

P.S: Just ignore things this is the best advice I can suggest

After a hiatus of almost 4years! Here I am again:)

Mr &Mrs;)

This is #1 in this year’s NaBloPoMo

Hi! So now I am named as Mrs Shweta Sharma 😀 though we will complete 4 years of marriage this month but it still feels like we just got married last year.Things have changed a lot since I blogged last , I got married, moved into a new home with new members and started a new life, sounds interesting at some point but it is really not a cakewalk. As a woman in an Indian society one has to get into all the adjustments though my new family helped me a lot on adjusting during my initial year but whatever may happen ‘your home’ is your home! the ease and comfort that you get at your mother’s place is not always the same that you’ll get at your new home and that can get irritating sometimes 😀

Coming on to my professional front , so I joined Teach for India as a volunteer but could not continue due to some serious personal issues but the time I spent there especially volunteering in Pune was priceless and will be etched in my memory forever,

I wanted to be in the education field but to enter in it I also wanted a degree , so I took up B.ed which was luckily only of 9 months and I also got a campus placement ! These 9 months taught me a lot , how to balance studies with home and my new family happily encouraged me to study which is rare in our society..sadly:( I started teaching in a good school the following year but again there was a lack of passion and interest though I was earning well, I had a good family back home but still things were not entirely on track as they should be. People said that I did a good job by studying on time and also by taking up a school teacher job as again assumed by the society being a teacher basically satisfies the craving of a woman to work and also enables her to do house chores and handle kids:P So things were going monotonously but I was not happy to see my career of biotechnology and pharma management go like this ,I started preparing for Phd and in the meanwhile cleared the CTET paper also through which I got a contract job in a defence school..feels good right but no I was still not happy.

Cutting this entire career graph short ,coming to this day of the month when am writing this blog almost after 4 years ,I just have to say just do what makes you happy and try to ignore things that you don’t feel good about. Currently I am thinking of future studies or job options in my own field even if its in the education field I want to stick to my field and distribute the ‘gyaan’ that I have supposedly gathered in my graduating years.

I will write again soon, on a new topic more interesting than my comeback. Till then do what makes you happy, as no one knows what tomorrow might bring.

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