Do You miss home 🏡?

So as the saying goes ,’home is where the heart is’,but is it really true? Don’t you miss home ,when you are far away?with no one around?Don’t you feel lonely??

So there are hundreds of questions that people ask you and you also feel really lonely sometimes when you are away from home.But what you do to eliminate this feeling is important,it’s quite natural,that we miss home and our loved ones when we are away from our home and place ,but the point again here is what to do?

1.Start a job-get busy and engage yourself with new people around you.

2.Take up a hobby-until you find a job that suits you or your visa requirements,take up any hobby that you never got time to complete

3.Start some course- start studying and adding a credential to your resume.Either online or part-time courses at any institute/University.

4. Volunteer- the best option to make friends and engage yourself.

5.Try cooking- master yourself in your culinary skills!

There may be many other options apart from these but definitely these pointers can make you busy and engaged in a new country!

Try them 🙂 and let me know of there are any other ways you are using to combat home sickness:)

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When you get so busy that you forget about NaBloPoMo too:(..very late post with a huge gap..#balancingallthingstogether

And finally someday you take out your stress and fatigue in doing something creative!!

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What do you do?

I couldn’t resist without writing about this topic especially after watching the  movie starring Vidya Balan (Tumhari Sulu) no other character in the movie stands tall as she does! though every character played by other actors was well written and well played.

More than reviewing this movie I want to talk about the concept it showed . A homemaker who hopes to work and do something independently.I guess this is the story of almost every 2nd homemaker in the world. Leaving the new mothers or those who don’t have any one to take care of their babies, everyone dreams of becoming independent.

The fact is every other person in the society also keeps asking her when will you resume work (if she is on a break) or what will you do in your life/are you applying for any job?

Most woman these days are independent which is really encouraging and good but there are some who are not and probably are not working as they don’t have any support from their family. The movie also treaded on the same path, where family was not that supportive of the lead doing some random job but she was able to start her job as her spouse was supportive, which according to me was quite realistically shown as I have myself observed this in my life where my mother had to quit her Government job as no one in the family was supportive of her job.

Some people might say that you are in a well to do family why do you need to go out and work? But according to me , we don’t work only for money, when we move out of our comfort zone , meet new people , discuss new things we grow mentally and psychologically and this growth can not be achieved while we are at home.( Leaving those woman who work from home due to some issues).

The question that is really irritates everyone is :What do you do? Firstly , I don’t think any one has the right to question what the other woman does and secondly even if she is a homemaker believe me bloggers it’s a huge task especially if she is also a mother! Thirdly , people always have problem if you do something they will say why are you doing a job who will take care of your home? If you don’t they’ll keep pestering you that why did you study so much if you just had to be home..Ughh

So, the most sorted answer for what do you do is : If you don’t  work somewhere ; I am a proud homemaker or a mother as even our new Miss world quoted: any career or profession can not be counted on how much money you make , it is counted by love and respect and I truly agree with her ! So be proud in what you do ..because if you will not love and respect yourself no one else will!!

‘Do what makes you happy and then think of making others happy’

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